It’s December, friends and lovers.
I’m so glad I leaned into creating a Substack- I had been craving a place to keep up with you regularly, for everyone, but specificially for the long distance friends and lovers. There’s also something about expressing oneself via words that can’t be shared physically or via Twitter (or BlueSky, where you will be able to find more of me heading into 2025); a sweet peek into the mind, a expansiveness and deepening of intimacy, if you will. We began here in January together, and now we are nearing the last days of the year. It’s fun to look back. It’s fun to dream forward.
We love a blurry selfie aka me after 2 glasses of wine. ;)
What does the end of the year look like for you? If it’s not all holiday cheer, well- let’s just say I appreciate the honesty. Be gentle with you. While this time of year can be an easy moment of reflection, it’s also a time of grief for many. We are living in troubling times. We are 14 months into the daily genocide in Gaza, we are weeks out from the inauguration of a man many feel represents the end of democracy. There’s a lot of uncertainty around whom will most be effected and how quickly. What sparks my comfort and inspiration is related to my sharings last month: the underlying deep understanding I have of leaning into one another. I share a true erotic invitation with you, my reader, to lean into our ability to play, to taste, to explore, to find delight, to lean into our devotion, and to find one another again and again in this lifetime.
I have big thanks to share as well. 2024 was… the best year I’ve experienced in this industry. This means the world to me: more orgasms, more anticipation, more financial stability, and more desserts? Count. me. in. There are many reasons for this, but I think perhaps the most important is sharing my authentic self — which people tend to resonate with and in turn, makes them desire to share their authentic selves with me. I feel proud of our connections when we find one another. I look forward to you as much as you do me.
Speaking of devotion… it is the holidays, and I have only a few wishes on my list this year. I look around at the abundance that already exists, and I feel happy, blessed, grateful. I tend to believe more comes in when we are pleased with what already is. Also: shout out to a sweetheart who is sending me to AIRE bathhouse for the second year in a row. My body is thrilled & aching for this already. Do send me as many times as your heart and wallet allow.
My wish list is short. I’m looking for a Nespresso machine ($200)… imagine me thinking of you each time I make a perfect latte) and a big, comfy couch ($1500) to sink into (perhaps while holding said latte// still searching for this perfect couch). Finally, I’m planning to get a very sexy black out tattoo and would be thrilled with a tip/donation or booking extension to help me in making that happen.
What else would I enjoy? Perhaps more duos. I’ve got some beautiful babes on my own wish list … let’s see if our dream girls overlap. I’m taking the end of the year easy, and can promise new photo sets as well as locked in PNW/NYC visiting dates early in the new year. It’s all coming… are you along for the ride? Do you believe in co-creating?
I do.
all warmth, always.
Sophia
